Practicality, Dreams and Happiness

They say that you own your own destiny and that you should be the one designing it. Elders thought me how to dream when I was little, dreams thought me to cry and cry made me realize that how cruel reality can be at times.

Certain factors affect how you proceed in life, it is not just your own strong will. Nowadays, you have to take into accounts practicality but sadly, practicality, dreams and happiness don't always go together. You can be rich but not happy. You can be living your dream job and be doing what you like everyday but ended up having to be poor for the rest of your life. This is the irony of life. This is the irony of every people living in the world today, if not for some, then I am happy for them and envy that they have all three of one of the most fundamental factors in our lives.

So what shall we do to have all three? Having all three is difficult but sooner or later in your pursuit of all these you will realize that you have to pick what matters to you the most and proceed accordingly. You have to sacrifice a lot of things to get to where you are and might have made a lot of u turns a long the way but I guess when you finally gotten to where you want to be you will come into terms of all these and settle for what is rightfully meant for you.

To be honest, I haven't really made my decision as to what matters most to me yet. I am still at an intersection in my life wherein I am trying to find out what I really like, my passion and what is my is priority. Sadly, I don't quite know myself yet which partly is the reason of all the delay. Maybe an epiphany will come to me one of these days and when it comes, nothing can stop me. Pray for me. 


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